Paddling against the Current: Embodied Conflict
POSTED ON July 28, 2018 | Comments (0)
“I’ve been trying to tell you, but you didn’t listen. You’ve got to go down more deeply and take more time, you’re rushing it and it’s too superficial. You’re hardly disturbing the surface. You’ll make no progress that way. And you are using so much...
To Understand Trump, Study his Mother's Trauma
POSTED ON July 19, 2018 | Comments (0)
President Trump’s visit has provoked much comment on the behaviour and attitudes demonstrated by this most unusual man. Not so much attention has been paid to what lies beneath. Just what makes a man act and speak as he does? An answer may lie in...
The certainties of the past will no longer afford security in the future
POSTED ON June 14, 2018 | Comments (1)
"The only thing that will redeem mankind is cooperation" - Bertrand Russell It is becoming more and more evident that a binary approach to important political questions is no longer fit for purpose. It is also fairly obvious that the certainties of the past will...
The Edinburgh Declaration of International Mediators, May 2018
POSTED ON May 28, 2018 | Comments (0)
I write this in the aftermath of an extraordinarily uplifting and diverse conference which I had the privilege to host and chair recently in Edinburgh, under the auspices of the International Academy of Mediators. Nearly 120 mediators from over 20 countries attended and shared deep...
Scotland ready to reprise role in thawing Cold War
POSTED ON May 10, 2018 | Comments (0)
In a new book titled “1983: The World at the Brink”, Taylor Downing describes how close we came that year to nuclear war between the US and the then USSR. President Reagan’s Star Wars programme and the shooting down of a South Korean 747 airliner...
POSTED ON May 02, 2018 | Comments (1)
We finished module 2 of our flagship training course last week. One of our participants emailed me the next day: “I was driving up the road yesterday and mulling over one aspect of the mediation exercise we did. I get that we are facilitating adults...
Nelson Mandela, master of mediation
POSTED ON April 23, 2018 | Comments (0)
In just a couple of weeks, over 120 mediators from all over the world will arrive in Edinburgh for the annual conference of the International Academy of Mediators. This is a wonderful occasion and a great opportunity for Scotland. Mediation in the mainstream? Quite a...
Optimising the use of Joint Sessions in Mediation
POSTED ON March 29, 2018 | Comments (0)
Much has been said and written about the demise of the joint meeting in mediation. In my experience, such a view is premature and, I fear, is potentially wasteful of the power that mediation brings for creative problem-solving. I am also aware of how much...
Are you your own worst enemy? Think about it.
POSTED ON March 05, 2018 | Comments (0)
‘In the morning when I look at myself in the mirror, I like to remind myself that I am seeing the person who is probably going to give me the most trouble that day, the opponent who will be the biggest obstacle to me getting...
Mediation: a cricketing metaphor
POSTED ON February 28, 2018 | Comments (0)
Recently, I was ruminating about analogies between cricket and mediation. Cricket is a much-loved sport in Scotland. Sadly, nowadays, changes in the climate mean that cricket in my home country is more often affected by summer rain and damp conditions than a generation ago. Its...