Never Give Up: Persevering in Mediation
POSTED ON February 06, 2019 | Comments (0)
“If you had not held us back that evening, the deal would not have been done.” “Thank you and I wish you well.” In this post, I return to a familiar theme for mediators and for lawyers acting for clients in mediation: perseverance. The first...
"Design in the Mediation Process": Reflections from an Assistant Mediator
POSTED ON December 11, 2018 | Comments (0)
Ainsley Francis writes: I had the opportunity assist in a mediation some time ago, and John has asked me to share my top three learning points from the day, as well as my thinking about why the process of mediation works and what makes...
A View from Frankfurt
POSTED ON November 29, 2018 | Comments (0)
My last blog reflected on an excellent mediation conference in Frankfurt on the Oder where the strength which comes from working together was clear. I started this present blog on the day that the EU agreed the terms of the UK’s departure from the organisation that has...
Mediation and Cups of Tea
POSTED ON November 14, 2018 | Comments (1)
“If only we’d had this conversation over a cup of tea fifteen years ago.” The client expressed frustration at the time which had passed, during which she and her opposite numbers had spent hundreds of thousands of pounds in litigation. That had got them no...
Mediator Engagement in Politics – and other things we care about
POSTED ON October 28, 2018 | Comments (3)
At a recent excellent conference hosted by Professor Ulla Glaesser at Viadrina University in Frankfurt (Oder), one of the workshop sessions focussed on the extent to which mediators can or should disclose or express their views when engaged in politically-related mediation work – or more...
A Universal Declaration of Interdependance is needed
POSTED ON October 29, 2018 | Comments (0)
Not long ago, I read a review of Yuval Noah Harari’s new book, 21 Lessons for the 21st Century. The message contained in it was so stark that I found myself temporarily paralysed with fear about the future. I had a visceral sense of powerlessness...
Brexit will put up barriers the EU was made to pull down
POSTED ON October 25, 2018 | Comments (0)
I don’t understand how you British could give up so easily. We’ve been trying for years to get into the EU. People lost their lives. You call it a prison. You have no understanding of what it is like for us. We know about prisons....
72+ Hours in a Life
POSTED ON October 23, 2018 | Comments (0)
In a period of a little over 72 hours, everything I have learned in the past twenty years and all the roles I have aspired to play converged in a remarkable series of events. It started with a meeting in a small town in the...
POSTED ON September 28, 2018 | Comments (1)
“The last great act of a courageous leader is to let go,” I suggested to the CEO as he pondered whether this was in fact a good time to step down. He had many reasons not to leave. He attributed these to other people’s needs...
"Intense, exciting, frustrating, worthwhile": Reflections from an Assistant Mediator
POSTED ON September 20, 2018 | Comments (0)
It’s 8:30am and I’m arriving to assist at my first mediation since completing the qualification. I’ve read the papers – more than 250 pages of summary and accompanying detail- and am trying hard to empty my head of all the preconceptions they have created and...